Doing research in Google trends I noticed that people are looking for information on how to get sexy. It got me questioning what exactly did they want to know about it. They could be keeping watch for how to get sexy legs, hair, figure, teeth looking out on how to get sexy attitude in general.

I decided to first research the word sex in the dictionary. Seriously I never looked up that word before – I always took it for granted that the word meant coitus but I found out the following:

The dictionary describes the word sex as a noun and it means :

    -either the male or female division of a species, esp. as differentiated with reference to the reproductive functions.

    - the sum of the structural and functional differences by which the male and female are distinguished, or the phenomena or behavior dependent on these differences.

    - the instinct or attraction drawing one sex toward another, or its manifestation in life and conduct.

The word Coitus is listed underneath the above phrases with a link to the explanation of the coitus word.

Then I examined the word sexy.

And found this – sex-y – adjective, sex – i - er, sex – i - est

    - concerned predominantly or excessively with sex; risqué: a sexy novel.

    - sexually interesting or exciting; radiating sexuality: the sexiest professor on campus.

    - excitingly appealing; glamorous: a sexy new car.

I’m assuming then that folks are wanting to establish how to get sexy so they come across as excitingly appealing to other people. Let’s get honest here people that are excitingly appealing to other people do have more success in life.

But what makes is a person sexy then?

Magazines are full of ideas on how to get sexy.

An example is that womens magazines claim that a mane of long hair is sexy for men and mens magazines suggest that a six pack is sexy for women.

I like to believe I’m a worldly woman so from my point of view more brawn than brains won’t cut it for me.

Let’s take Richard Branson as an example – he doesn’t have a six pack, but he sure isn’t physically ugly. I love what Ivana Trump said about him, “Richard is good looking and very smart, which is sexy to start with. He also makes a billion dollars before breakfast. And still knows how to have fun”. Having had the privilege and honour of working with Sir Richard Branson on his virgin money launch in South Africa I agree whole heartedly with her.

My personal recommendations on how to get sexy: (Opinions vary but I will consider you sexy if you can master these tips!)

    - Cultivate your personality.

    - Develop a sense of humour.

    - Dress so that your individual style shines out – sexy does not mean sleazy.

    - Get rich – forget what you were taught. Just to make it clear I would like to mention that some people have the idea that being poor is what God wants. This is wrong . In the Bible it says “Thou shalt not love money more than God”. Once you realise that money is merely a means of exchange and does not smell either bad or good you are on the way to becoming sexy..

    - Get healthy - excuse the cliché but your body is the house of your soul.

    - Stop whining – it brings every body down.

    - Quit cigarettes – yuck, they stink. The smell of old ashtray clings even more too expensive after shave and perfume.

    - Stay sober - Being drunk is no excuse for getting sexy and doing something that’s regrettable in the morning.

    - Be a friend, Zig Ziglar, one of America’s leading coaches in the personal development industry is quoted to have said “If you go looking for a friend, you’re going to find they’re very scarce. If you go out to be a friend, you’ll find them everywhere”.

    - Get a grip on your thoughts: whether you believe it or not your thoughts make you into the person you are. Thoughts become words and words become your character.

    - Think before you speak. Regardless how sexy someone appears to be – if the lingo shocks you all sex appeal is gone instantaneously.

    - Walk your talk

How to be sexy is easy when you know who you are and what you want.

“When somebody gives you a sexy look, you know they’re trying. It’s terrible! But when you smile, it’s so much sexier!” Joseph Addison

How did I get from out of the pits into the bowl of cherries? By being teachable! You can do it to. Visit Think Right Now and sign up for a free newsletter that is bound to get you sexy in no time.

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